Welcome to our family website.

This blog, which began as a therapeutic outlet during the wait for our daughter's arrival, morphed into a place to share feelings, ask for support, and flip through a virtual 'brag book' of photos. NOW, as we embark on our second adoption trek, please join us as we plan, pray, and travel again to the other side of the world to be united with the next piece of our family puzzle.

Peace & Blessings...Beth & Ron (and Hope too)

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Article 5

Our Article 5 came today. What does that mean, you ask? Well, it is kind of the final piece of the puzzle. The Article 5 relstes to Luke's immigrant visa and is the last piece of approved paperwork we need before the China Center sill issue our travel approval (TA). TA is essentially China's invitation to us to finally go meet our little boy.

"The Adopted Children's Immigrant Visa Unit (ACIVU) at U.S. Consulate General Guangzhou has finished processing your child's Article 5, and your file is ready to be returned to your adoption agency's facilitator today."

Happy 6th Birthday Hope!!!

Guess what beautiful young lady is having a birthday today! I cannot believe at all that our little girl is already celebrating her 6th birthday!  This is the picture Ron sent to me today.  He took the day off to spend it with his special birthday girl.  They went to Madagascar II 3D so I got to see a picture of the glasses.  Hope said she took them off when the cat came off the screen because she was afraid she'd be allergic.  :)

Sad to miss this day with my girl, but we'll celebrate when Mom get's home.  Glad Hope and Daddy had such a special day!!!

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Care Package II

We've been thinking for a while about sending Luke another care package.  Our experience sending a package on our own to Hope was successful so we thought we'd try again.  The wait time is so different this time because we've had Luke's picture/information since January.  We traveled just a few short weeks after seeing Hope's referral so it is extra hard now not to have updated information.  It's been a bit of a bummer that we haven't had a response to the birthday care package we sent to Luke.  We were sssssssoooooooooooo hoping for an updated picture and some information about him, his personality, his hearing, his size, etc.

At any rate, here is round two.  I was able to find a copy of the address for Luke's SWI written in Chinese and English.  We shopped for some fun things we thought would be fun for a little boy, though I must admit this is foreign territory for us.  Here is what we came up with:

Cozy Blanket Chosen by Luke's Sister

Most of the Goodies

MUSY have a puppy!  :)

Photo Album for Luke and Photo Book for the Workers

This is just a close-up.  These little albums are so great!  We still have the one we sent to Hope.  The SWI kept the original one, but we made her a duplicate so she's always have her first photos of her family.
We also included a couple more one-time-use cameras that will hopefully be returned to us (full) when we meet Luke so we can have some snapshots of his last few months in the SWI.

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

NVC and DS-230 Packet

Well on the 24th, we got an email from CR asking if we'd heard anything about our I-800 approval.  Of course we haven't heard anything yet.  I won't go down that whiny road though. So, I got on the phone to call the National Visa Center.

Ron forwarded our I-800 approval to CR 5/14/12
CR sent the approveal to National Visa Center 5/15/12

Guess what I was told on the phone!
NVC uploaded our paperwork on 5/18/12!
WHY are we still waiting for a response now on the 24th?  Thank goodness for the lovely helpful woman on the other end of the phone who forwarded our inquiry to her supervisor.  We had the email NVC response in our in-box that evening.

Up next was the DS-230 packet.  Everything was in the hands of the CR liaison in China just waiting for this NVC upload to be complete.  So, on the 25th our NVC letter was sent to China to accompany our packet.  Of course that was Friday of Memorial weekend so our DS-230 was delivered on the 29th to the US Consulate.  Apparently it is supposed to take about two weeks before the Article 5 is issued.  After that is Travel Approval!!!  FINALLY

Monday, May 14, 2012

I-800 Approval

"Petition to Classify Convention Adoptee as an Immediate Relative"

Our I-800 approval came in the mail today.  Our LOA was on 4/23 and so our I-800 packet was sent to the NBC (National Benefits Center) to request this next step in immigration approval.

Nothing has gone quickly, or smoothly it seems, for us in this process.  We missed being DTC by a few days before the new regulations were implemented which in turn added a time and paperwork to our process.  We had issues with our FedEx delivery of documents that had to be sent to the state of WI for authentication.  Once we were finally DTC at the end of October (10/24), it took forever to get our LID.  Nobody could believe that we missed a couple months of updates to the SN list in China because we couldn't be matched without that darn log-in-date.  Coincidentally, we were finally issued our LID on the same date that Katie was able to match us in January (1/16, almost three months after DTC).  We rushed to research and gather information, submitted LOI and did receive our PA in a pretty timely fashion.  But then came the BIG wait.  From PA (1/31) to LOA (4/23) was a whopping 83 days!  I guess this is apparently within the "window" of expected time, but WOW did it seem to take forever!

**UPDATE - Someone told me earlier that that the LOA wait time starts with the LID.  So, if we count back to our log-in-date, that's 98 days!

So, as I voice my complaints about the ongoing hurry-up-and-wait process we're going through, I am reminded again of just how perfect the plan is that we are lucky enough to be a part of.  As frustrating as this journey can be, we are reminded of the holiness of the "wait,"  the grace in God's timing, and the impending joy we'll experience the day we meet Luke.  We're almost there, Luke!  :)

What's next?  Crossroads will forward this approval to the NVC (National Visa Center) so they can upload whatever needs to be in the international visa system on-line so paperwork can be issued for Luke in China.  Once his information is in the system and can be accessed by the US Visa Center in Guangzhou, our DS-230 packet (final collection of all our necessary documents) can be hand carried by the liaison in China to the US Embassy there which will in turn, after about two more weeks, issue the final document (Article 5) prior to our travel approval.  WHEW!  Does that all make sense at all?

P.S.  Nothing heard back from the care package we sent.  We had our hopes up pretty high for some updated pictures and maybe some questions answered from the letter we sent.  It's so hard to wait.  And, let me tell you, it does NOT get easier.

Saturday, May 5, 2012

Happy 1st Birthday Baby Boy!!!

Oh my goodness how we love you already.  We're thinking of you today and praying that you've had extra snuggles and love on your special day.  We pray that you are happy and healthy and that someone is telling you that your forever family is coming for you very soon.  Here our pictures of our little birthday dessert in your honor.

We started out with Grandma's Rhubarb Pie.



An Oreo cookie was more Hope's style.  :)


These are the happy eyes of a proud big sister.

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Luke's First Care Package

Once we received our LOA we made the decision to contact a service in China to try to get a care package to Luke before his birthday.  We didn't have a lot of time to get our act together on this, but we really wanted to make sure that Luke had a 1st birthday party with his friends at the SWI.  We worked with Ann at Red Thread China to send our first package.  For Hope's adoption we chose to send our own package of things collected here, and we may choose to do that again later, but for now because Luke's birthday is so close, we decided to try Ann's service.  Ann sent us these pictures last night of some of the items that were sent in his package.  We also sent some toy cars and there should be a cake that will be delivered, along with some decorations of some kind.  We sure pray he has a special celebration.  It's hard to not be with your baby on his first birthday.