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This blog, which began as a therapeutic outlet during the wait for our daughter's arrival, morphed into a place to share feelings, ask for support, and flip through a virtual 'brag book' of photos. NOW, as we embark on our second adoption trek, please join us as we plan, pray, and travel again to the other side of the world to be united with the next piece of our family puzzle.

Peace & Blessings...Beth & Ron (and Hope too)

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Long Overdue!

OK - I just was looking over our blog and realized that Ron has done the last three posts! I definitely have some catching up to do. At the risk of feeling the wrath of some...I'm going to have to do this one quickly and without photos. Know that I will try my best to catch up more soon.

Since I've been back to work I've again found myself with a lack of blogging time. I LOVE LOVE LOVE that people like to check in with us and see what is new in Hope's world and I always enjoy following the journeys of other families so I know that I have some work to do here.

Work is going well. What can I say? I am one of the lucky people who really likes her job. I work with some incredible people and am blessed by someone I work with every day. HOWEVER (and this is a BIG one), I really have a hard time leaving in the morning. My little angel has only been a part of our family for three short months and I just want to be with her all the time. I want to see and experience all of her new daily discoveries. I want to teach her new songs. I want to watch her sleep during her naps. I want to take her for walks. I want to hear her sweet voice as she tries out all her new sounds. I want to keep teaching her signs and watch her little hands and fingers as she tries to use them. I just miss her so much and I would be telling a complete lie if I said that I left for work in the morning without tears most days. All the Moms out there reading this... when does it get easier to say "goodbye" in the morning?

As far as other things in life keeping me busy, I've taken a temporary break from almost all of them. I'm not interpreting often outside of the school day, and I'm not nearly as involved in church activities as I've been. I am trying very hard to keep our evenings and weekends reserved for family time. That doesn't mean that we're always home, but whatever we're doing, we try to do it together. Now that Hope is home, I'm definitely getting better at the "n" word. I don't know if I kept myself so busy before (and I mean pretty much every night) so I wouldn't think about how badly we wanted a child, but now that she's here, "no" rolls off my tongue so much more easily than it ever has in the past. Remarkable things happen when you become a Mom. :)

And - Hope update:
* She is now in a pretty solid 12m. size. She still has a few 9 mo. onsies that fit and she's actually worn two 18 mo. things, but for the most part 12 mo. it is.

* I felt her 10th tooth this afternoon. When I picked up Hope after work and Grandma said only one messy diaper today (we've been having multiple delightful diapers recently), I thought OH!, maybe that tooth came through. Sure enough, hello #10. To backtrack...6 when we met her on June 4th and 8 by the time we got home from China on the 14th. #9 came in a couple weeks ago, a molar on the bottom right. #10 today, a molar on the top right. I can also feel #11 and #12, molars on the left to come in shortly I'm sure.

* Growing Feet! - Grandma and Grandpa just picked up new shoes for Hope, SIZE 4! I know that doesn't seem very big, but her sandals when we got home from China were a 2! She has such cute little toes. ;)

* Signing - Hope's newest signs are THANK YOU and BOOK. She's doing great! I really want to get her on video showing off her signs, but it is sort of hit or miss when you ask her to perform. Sometimes she'll do her whole vocabulary, and sometimes she just doesn't want to sit/stand still long enough to sign two things.

* Speaking of sitting/standing still...YEAH - she doesn't do that much!

* Ron mentioned sleeping through the night...isn't it glorious?! ;) She chose to sleep through the night for the first time since China right before I went back to work! AWESOME timing!

Any other questions about Hope?

Finally - I know I said this post would be sans photos, but I just got this one and I know it is one of Grandpa's favorites. Here's a smile on us...PIGTAILS!!!

8 comments:

RamblingMother said...

where did you get the fisher price dog? I remember it from when the little people were wooden blocks with plastic heads.

Love the pigtails.

Beverly

Anonymous said...

Understand completely about not having time and trying to balance all you want to do! Remember, you are doing an amazing job - I just look at how happy you all are, including Hope, and I can see it! It does get easier leaving every day, but what gets me through the day is that the time we have together is even that more precious! I can't believe how much she has grown!

Blessings to you all!
Isaac&Jody

Anonymous said...

Soo happy to hear everything is going well. Hope sounds like she is doing just fabulous. And for Mom, I don't know that it ever gets easier but eventually I think you just kind of get used to leaving the house more especially as they get older and even more independent :-) You're doing great!! Hope's hair is getting long wow. :-) Hope to catch up with you all some time soon maybe we can go geocaching again.

The Motto Family

Erin said...

Hi Beth, Thanks for the great update. I love checking out blogs and really look forward to the updates. I don't really have any advice about the leaving for work issue, but I imagine leaving her with the grandparents eases your mind quite a bit.
I've been trying to teach my Jill the few signs that I know, which are very few indeed. It's such an amazing way to communicate with a baby who doesn't have verbal language yet. Wish I had tried it with my other children. Maybe in all your free time, you could post a video teaching parents some useful signs? Pretty please?

AmyO said...

Ah...pigtails! I think we have a few more months until Olivia's hair is long enough. See you next weekend! Olivia was sound asleep after you guys left too :)

Heather said...

Beth - LOOOOVE the pigtails - she is such a sweetie. Congrats on new teeth and to answer your question, it never gets easier to say goodbye! I work a part time schedule in the evening and literally count the minutes til I am back with my girls, but that's me and not everyone may feel this way. I will say it is fun to watch the relationship grow between grandparent and grandbaby and this gives them the time they need to love on each other!

So glad all is well - you have one beautiful family!!

Heather

Melody said...

We love you guys and miss you so much!! Beth...I hate to tell you this, but I'm not sure it ever gets easier to leave in the morning. I still get tears often when I say goodbye to my Hope. Just know that she's in the best hands possible...well, next to yours and Ron's. And what a wonderful way for Hope to get to know her Grandparents. That's what helps me.

And yeah on tooth #10!!! I just noticed our Hope got her second two 2 year molars, so we should be done with the teething thing now. WOOHOO!!

And double YEAH for you, Beth, for saying no. You know I miss you like crazy in choir, but I'm so proud of you!!! Which reminds me, does Vicky know that the Living Stones aren't going to be singing next weekend?? Guess I should mention something to her tomorrow.

Time to get to bed. I'm exhausted!!

Love all three of you!!!
Mel

Nesting For Natalie said...

Great to catch up with you guys :). LOVE the pig tails!

Working never got easier for me. I finally quit after my second child was 13 months old because I missed my kiddos so much. Tears were an issue for me and for them most mornings.

That was the solution for me. I hope you find it gets easier for you as time goes by and Hope gets into the swing of things!

Sadly, I never did receive an announcement from you and Hope! If I had, you would have heard a big THANK YOU from me :)!

Thank you for all your kind words to my blog!

Blessings!

Amy